Humans
aka Us people
The thing about humans is that we own an organ that allows us to think and control ourselves, which is called a Brain. Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on how you see it, there are some of us whom are overly-developed or more developed than the rest of us would have the ability to change another without trying, this is called Influence. However, when there are people who are more developed, there tend to be a group which are under-developed, whom they would try to push a person to their limit be it physically or other ways, this is called Pressurizing. These are just 3 examples of how human could act, there are plenty more where it came from and I am NOT here to tell you all of them.
They say human are emotional creatures. They, We react to things like attraction, seduction, love and betrayal. Also, more of us have taken the initiative to proof that among these emotional creatures, females tend to be much more emotional than the males.
Whether is it because of certain hormones in the body or generic genes, or even maybe because of the gender itself, that is also not in my place to say. But yea, millions and millions of us humans in the world, living on earth (and under earth) but only one conclusion, one evidence needed to generalize and categorize us.
Like a coin, there is always both sides to a story. Could be good or bad. Categorizing may not be all bad; it helps us to see past our differences and show us that there are similar, not identical, similar people like us exists and we can still find a place within them, fitting for you and I.
But what I was trying to say is that, not everything should be concluded by a person, a thought or a statement. Gather the points, the evidence and/or the point of view of another, then one could see things more clearer than before.
But above all,
Just don't be nosy and just mind yourself, that is the ultimate and optimal solution. Because if it doesn't concern you, it doesn't. If it does concern you, you should know your stand and where you stand; as long as you are able to sleep with peace in the night knowing you did the right thing or did not do anything against your morals then all is well.
Similarly, if you did it, you did it. If you did not, you did not. So why cry about spilled milk for countless hours just because someone says you spilled it when, you did not? That's right, don't.
On a side note and totally unrelated topic, I am unofficially graduated! So like me, life will be a passing phase so let bygones be bygones and let people be who they want to be, for it is by, by all means, their own choice. You and I just have to mind ourselves and cherish those that stayed through your eyebrows phases; thick and thin. Concluding off, Just be who you want to be, you do not have to change yourself or try to anyone, everybody is beautiful the way they are and there is no point in pleasing anyone. If you did, you would know that the second you stop pleasing them, maybe its your bad day or you just want to relax for a day, they would leave you. Faster than a snap of the fingers. People that will love you for who you are, will accept the full you. No matter how you change or what you do, they will still love and accept you. Like family.
Just live your life, the way you want. Because, it would be the most beautiful and gorgeous of them all.
Be like Willy Wonka, who does not gives a flying tit about what anyone thinks of him.
